I think back to my trip to Cambodia with mixed feelings. There were bits which I enjoyed (hmm, mostly when I’m spending money), and there were bits which just made me feel really sad. It wasn’t the most comfortable holiday and was certainly not a relaxing one. In fact, I came home disturbed and more stressed than before I’d gone … but it was eye-opening and despite everything, I’m glad I went. Or is glad too perky a word?
Anyways, we land in Siem Reap early Saturday morning and are met by Savoun, our guide. It’s a new airport, so it’s all spic and span and nicely done up. A few minutes into the trip to our guesthouse and turns out that almost everything here in Siem Reap is new. We’re travelling along this really dusty ‘road’ (I use the term loosely here) and everywhere we turn, we see big spanking new hotels. Looks like they’re really racing to cater to the comforts of the burgeoning tourist market.

Within a few minutes, we reach our guesthouse Jasmine Lodge. First impression? Delighted, I’d say. For a place that charges USD4 per pax per night (breakfast included some more), it’s really nice! I’m surprised cos I was expecting something along the lines of Rumah Tumpangan Ah Seng, if you know what I mean. But no, Jasmine Lodge is adorable! I take an instant liking to the bright orange and purple building.

We get into our quad share room and whaddya know, we’re again pleasantly surprised: the room is newly refurbished and very clean. What a bargain!

After cleaning up, we’re off to Tonle Sap. On the way there, we get a firsthand look at driving Cambodian-style. Everyone is literally going everywhere. The sandy lanes are choked with cyclists, cars, tuk-tuks, motorbikes, pedestrians, you name it … and everyone is going in every direction. According to Savoun, you can pretty much drive whichever way you want – left, right, it doesn’t matter. Um, sometimes, traffic light red also the cars just go only. Good lord. Later, we’d ask a local from Phnom Penh what the accident rate’s like. He claims it’s quite low despite the crazy system (if you can call it that) they have. And when we have to cross the road, his advice to us is, “Just walk across. The cars will stop for you … just go slow and you’ll be okay.”
And people here honk. A lot. Our driver is honking all the way. Honk honk honk honk. He honks at cyclists, bikers, young kids on tricycles, little old ladies on walkers, everybody. No one is spared from the excessive honking. Amazingly, no one is killed either.

We finally get to the river that leads out to Tonle Sap, the largest freshwater lake in South East Asia. We walk down this muddy slope to get into the boat.


First impression: brown. The water is murky and brown. Guess cos it’s the dry season now. Come the wet season, the water becomes clearer and the size of the lake swells up ten times its size. But for now, the water’s brown and it smells kinda bad too. Savoun tells us it’s the smell of rotting fish.

During our boat ride, we see floating villages – a mix of locals and Vietnamese stay here. They rear fish under their houses to sell for a living. There are little kids – mostly nude – running around in the swamps or rowing their sampans, just laughing and playing and having a grand old time. I’m talking young like 3-year-old young with no parental supervision. I guess you don’t worry about kidnappers if you live in the lake.

The boat ride is long and once we reach Tonle Sap, we’re amazed at how vast it is. It’s like being out at sea. By now, the pungent rotting smell has disappeared.
Back in the boat, we start to head back to shore. Upon disembarking on the river bank, little kids clamber up to us holding plates with our pics stuck on each one of them.

“Five dollar one,” they tell me. I’m impressed. I hadn’t even noticed anyone taking my pic. Apparently, they do it when you’re boarding the boat. It’s so tacky and touristy. Obviously, I have to buy it!


We go for lunch at this pretty little restaurant called Tany Family Khmer Kitchen.

We order some recommended dishes and get our first taste of Khmer cuisine. Quite similar to Thai (which I love) and Vietnamese (which I also love!) though less spicy. Some of us aren’t too crazy about the herbs and spices used in the soup though.

After lunch, we head over to Artisans D’Angkor village.

It’s an arts and crafts workshop where they take in the deaf and mute, as well as those living on the streets, and equip them with skills like painting, weaving silk and carving to help them make a living.

Of course, then there’s a really fancy souvenir shop where everything’s over-priced.

I can’t help but buy some tea and rice brandy … I’m a total sucker for pretty packaging! I later find that there’s another Artisans D’Angkor outlet at the airport. But really, you can get pretty much the same souvenirs at the markets outside for a much cheaper price (if you’re not a stickler for quality, that is).

Ah, cheap shopping time. We stop off at the popular Old Market – a network of stalls that sell everything from …

… makan stuff …

… to clothing …
… to shoes …

… there’s even a salon in there. Haircut, anyone? It’s a lot like the humongous Chatuchak weekend market in Bangkok though smaller in size. Being girls, we naturally go a little nuts in there buying stuff, particularly shawls. They’re absolutely gorgeous and at only USD2 per shawl, we grab as many as our wallets permit.

Okay. I’m being a dork but I can’t resist taking this shot. I love the ‘select colour’ function on my camera. And wearing a bright red tank top, how can I possibly pass this up??

Since we plan on going to Angkor Wat tomorrow, we go buy our tickets today. It’s USD20 for one-day pass (it costs USD40 for 3 days and USD60 for a week). Lonely Planet recommends that we spend at least two days there; one day is bordering on sacrilegious. Despite the advice, we stick to one day. Two or more days of temple-trekking? Um, not for me, I don’t think. Last I checked, there’s no Indiana Jones blood in me.

We get to the ticketing booth and wow, it’s crowded! You have to go there personally to have your pic taken and it’s immediately printed on the ticket. Cute huh?

After purchasing our tickets, we head to our first temple ruin at Angkor Wat to catch the sunset. the moment we open the car door, the dusty smog chokes us. There are small children everywhere, with dirty little faces and tattered clothing, begging you to buy all kinds of things – from guidebooks to snacks to trinkets. “Lady, guidebook? One dollar?” they call out. Sometimes they tug at your sleeve if they’re close enough. These street children (along with beggars) are everywhere here in Cambodia. It’s heartbreaking. Until today, I still can’t get the sight of this woman I saw in Phnom Penh sitting cross-legged on the pavement, her mouth hung open, a dazed expression on her face, hair all knotted up in filth, surrounded by four small children and cradling a baby in her arms …

… but I digress. Okay, back to Angkor Wat and the sunset. It’s a short 15-minute walk up to the temple ruins.

As you can see, tourist cru-u-u-ush!

We get up to the temple grounds and omg, there are hordes of people up there already: tripods all set up, butts warming the most strategic sunset-watching spots, all waiting patiently for the sun to go down.

We climb up, or should I say, crawl up the incredibly narrow steps. The steps are so narrow you have to climb up sideways and hold onto the wall of rocks for dear life. The view of the steps from way up there can be pretty daunting – gulp, how to get back down??
We stay for a few fruitless minutes, trying to find a good spot. Failing that, we decide to head back down. Good also to get down earlier. If you do it right after the sunset, can you imagine climbing down with all these people and their giant tripods? Yikes.

We walk down to the entrance using the elephant trail. I wanted to ride the elephant but they were all booked up. USD15 is the fee (USD20 if you want the elephant ride up in the first place) – not cheap huh?

I’m wearing my shawl as a face mask the whole time. It doesn’t actually protect you from the dust la, but after a while, there’s a strange sense of comfort in being “invisible”.

Hmm, or maybe I just like looking like a bank robber.

Later that evening, Savoun brings us to this stretch of road that’s apparently a very popular picnic spot for families and couples who are pak-toh-ing. Picnicking is very happening here. Everybody does it.

I know this is a lame pic and way too dark to make out anything … but notice the little dots of light you see off in the distance? They’re actually tea candles, lit and placed on mats. The fringe of the road is lined with mats. Families pay USD1 to ‘rent’ the spot for a picnic for the night. Alfresco dining at its most basic. It makes me feel strangely sad to see this. I mean, sure, in Malaysia, we’re also crazy enough to eat next to traffic-congested streets and longkangs and all that, but not while sitting cross-legged on the uneven ground, dust floating everywhere … hmm, or is it just me?
Food’s easy enough to get here since there are vendors lining the street. We don’t try any of the food though. Paranoid to kena food poisoning again. Once is enough – eek. Before coming here, I did some research on food safety in Cambodia and it’s made me totally paranoid. I decided to only eat food that’s thoroughly cooked (salads can be risky), fruit with skin intact (even cut fruits are risky) and to drink only boiled or bottled water – no ice cubes for me. For extra measure, I also packed tons of diarrhea and nausea meds, paracetamols, fung-yao, tiger balm, you name it. Just. In. Case.


There’s a fun fair on the left – more like a barren expanse of dust and stones, with the occasional dilapidated ride or game. This makes me a little sad too, but also grateful for all the good things we have back home. Farther down this street is a row of several happening nightspots (which we’ll be visiting tomorrow night for dinner and a spot of karaoke – another very popular activity around here).

We go to Amazon Angkor for dinner. This place has Tourist written all over it in bright neon lights. It’s a buffet dinner and a cultural dance performance.

I don’t eat much cos honestly, the food kinda sucks. Oh well. You know la our Malaysian food philosophy: the best food’s always those that come from the vendors squatting beside the longkang. Dirt is authentic!

The dance performances are interesting. I can understand why they require years of training from an early age. I don’t know how they can bend their hands backwards like that and the dancers’ backs were arched so much, I got a backache just looking. Movements are laboriously slow, each dance is pretty long (or maybe it just felt long), and it’s all accompanied by a lady singing in a high-pitched, almost whiny voice. Reminds me of Chinese opera, which I don’t appreciate either (mainly cos I don’t understand what they’re singing).
The costumes are immensely beautiful though. Very ornate and heavily embroidered, with plenty of sequins and I read, sometimes, even semi-precious gems! Apparently, some of the costumes require such a tight fit that they have to be sewn right onto the dancers so that they fit right!
We head back to the guesthouse later that night, all pretty tired and ready to zonk out. Need to get some sleep … tomorrow is the highlight of our trip: Angkor Wat! And I can tell you, temple-trekking is no easy feat with the sun beating down on you and dust scratching out your eyeballs.
Continued in Cambodia: Angkor Wat (2/4)